So, why does it matter? If everyone is entitled to his or her own opinion...then why do we make such a big deal about it?
I'm not sure why people tend to care so much..but if i've learned anything..it's that, no matter what people will have their own opinion and will judge you no matter what. Everyone will think what they want, and it's very hard to persuade people to think the way you think. Chances are: It won't happen.
I know that personally, I care to much. About people that is. I think that when it comes to caring about what a person thinks, that it's kind of pointless. Yes, it can be helpful, knowing someones opinion. It can even be useful to an extent. Yet, I refuse to let someone's opinion drive me crazy and rule my life. It's pointless, to me, to take someone else's opinion to seriously and try to change myself for that person.
Well, the point of all that, is because my friend let's everyone else run her thoughts.
Well, I don't know if she's really my friend. But this blog goes out to her.
I love her as HER. The her I know without people changing her. I've known her since the first grade. Day by day she changes her opinion because she's not happy with herself. Day by day, I try to tell her that I miss the old her. The girl who used to not care when we randomly danced around in the backseat of the car and people starred. The girl who used to laugh with me at the stupidest things, and would debate with me and we would back each other up on which spice girl was the best.
What I try is to tell her that I miss her. To tell her that I want her back.
R.I.P. A mind of a lost girl.
They all tell us the same thing, sometimes it just doesn't sink in.
A moral message: Don't change who you are.
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