Saturday, February 13, 2010

The famous act of changing your mind.

So, yeah..guys like to talk to you, and then they like to leave.

A friend of mine recently experienced this. The only advice I could give her was, "...Hm..guys sucks." That was the only thing i knew to say. Reason being, guys do suck, they will walk out, and I, for once, had no advice to give on that topic. Yeah, guys will walk out, girls walk out on guys too. It sucks. It's life. It's something that you have to deal with.

I have experienced this before. it leaves you confused and wondering why. It makes you wonder if it was your fault. If you did something wrong, and leaves you thinking about the famous 'what if's'. Statistic's show that, 87% of the time, it's not your fault. Sometimes, a person just cannot handle things. Sometimes, they got more then what they bargained for. Sometimes, they got caught up in something that wasn't right for them. I've learned that no matter what, someone's bound to get hurt. The Road To Hell Is Paved With Good Intensions.

No matter how much someone walks out on you..you should take the experience..and learn from it. Learn that, in the end, you have the ability to be the bigger person and be the stronger person. You have the ability to move on, and just accept that life is going to give you hardships and will put you through hell and make you stressed.

Just grow from it. Learn from it. And smile.

(:

1 comment:

  1. hey omg thanks so much (:
    n now on i will try to learn from it n move on
    ily n thanks just reading this made me feel better<3 - sj

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